Four nights, step by step
This page walks you through what happens from the first call to the drive home.
A conversation, then a preparation call
Every retreat begins with a conversation, so we can both be sure that engaging in the darkness is right for you. It happens after you reserve your dates and before your place is confirmed; if it isn’t the right time, your deposit is refunded in full.
About two weeks before your retreat you have a one-hour preparatory call with your facilitator. In this call your guide helps you get ready for your time in the dark: what is calling you to it, your intention, and any practical or logistical questions.
Settling in and entering the dark
Once you arrive on the land you are welcomed and walked to your cabin, shown your way around it, and given time to settle in and get to know the space.
That afternoon there is the option of a bodywork session, to help you begin relaxing into the space.
That evening we gather with the other retreatants and the guides for an opening circle. We share dinner together and hold an opening ceremony, and that night you go into the dark to begin your retreat.
Your time in the dark
For the next 72 hours you are immersed in the darkness. This is the heart of your retreat, giving you the space to rest, sleep, explore your inner world, and notice what arises.
During this time, two warm meals are delivered to your cabin each day. Your facilitator checks in with you at each delivery to support you through your process, and you can ask for more support at any check-in.
Bodywork is also available during your retreat, for those who want it, at an additional fee.
Emergence
On the fourth evening you emerge from the dark and back into the light. As you are welcomed out, you have the rest of the evening to yourself: to walk on the land, reflect, write, and pendulate between the light and the dark as your whole being readjusts to where you now are.
You then return to your dark cabin for the final night.
Closing circle and departure
The next morning we hold a closing ceremony and circle with the other retreatants, to openly share our experiences. Still taking things slowly, so they can integrate, we share a group breakfast and talk about integration practices. Departure is at 11:00 am.